Obviously when I confronted him, he denied everything saying he was only looking, he never touched anyone, etc. After telling him I had proof he showed me the email accounts and I found several emails to escort services requesting to set up dates.He said it was titillating to set up the dates but always cancelled them.When conversation turns away from him, he is on his i Phone or will even take out his computer, completely ignoring the social situation around him.
A few years later when we were moving, I found a stash of porn DVDs – close to a hundred – and asked him about it.
He said to just throw them away – he had just used them while we were living apart for a year prior to marrying.
They so fear rejection for being virgins that they can’t bring themselves to approach women.
They can’t bring themselves to approach women, so they don’t have opportunities to lose their virginity. We live in a culture that seems to go out of its way to imply that everyone is having sex and you aren’t. In fact, the number of people having sex in high school is actually from 54% in 1991 to 43% in 2011.
It feels like to 50 – that they can’t bring themselves to talk about it.