Nice guys who are only nice are boring, but the proverbial “nice guy with edge” is the holy grail for most women.
I’d like to think you can be a nice, generous, thoughtful, devoted man without kissing your girlfriend’s ass and losing all semblance of self-respect.
Does it mean the saying “nice guys finish last” applies for girls as well?
Dear Tamara, I love your thought-provoking email and take great pride that readers like you have the ability to find the tiny loopholes in my dating advice.
Or maybe you’re just proposing that ONLY you give less, so that he constantly has to win you over but never gets the security of knowing that he’s “got” you.