ticking time bomb unless she is incredibly grounded and into you for other reasons.
Here’s a list of shows I could think of off the top of my head: So with the exception of maybe Family Guy and King of Queen, both sitcoms, the fat guy/skinny wife works when the husband is a strong dude or has Alpha qualities.
One of my best friends is a big dude (6’6″) who got way fatter after college, and his wife is a skinny minny, but dude is an super confident AMOG and could punch well above his rank if he wanted to.
But sometimes I dream of what it would be like to reenter the dating scene. but a few of those contributors admitted that for their life, they had enough and got out. You, as a husband, can’t make your wife thin by wishing it or verbally beating her up or encouraging her. You can alpha up and improve yourself but sometimes it’s either deal with having a fat wife for the kids or because you are religious or whatever… Ironically, after you leave or get divorced will be when she “gets in the best shape of her life”. All you can do is control your own behaviors and actions, you can’t control others.
It’s up to you to have the “come to Jesus” conversation with your wife (stop being so afraid and really give it to her about what you feel about her fat/eating habits and what it means to your marriage), and if it get’s to be something that impacts your quality of life enough, don’t be afraid to make drastic changes (separation or divorce) as you only live once.
Sometimes you have a post you have no idea where it’s going when you start. I’m guessing it’s a long road to nowhere..nowhere but fat bashing that is. It makes for stable relationships when you’re generally close in body rank.