But if it also coincides with being difficult, dating might be a long, tough road for you. The trick to that is knowing how the man you’re with is perceiving you, and being able to tone down or turn off the traits he might find as reason to dump you for someone more agreeable.
I used to think this was dumbing myself down, or playing to the masses, being fake, or not true to myself.
Many times people who are shy have little or no eye contact with others.
You may see a man, man woman or child try to avoid eye contact with others while out walking around in public or even private.
But what I realized is there’s a reason they call this the dating “game” and if you want to play, you have to learn the rules.