We’ve analysed all the comments, and come up with this list of 10 messaging sins you absolutely shouldn’t commit when communicating with a match.Of all the responses we had, over 40% said that bad spelling and grammar were a real turn off.On the other hand, if you send a one line email, you’re pretty much saying ‘I couldn’t be bothered to put much effort into this’.
Admittedly, this was one that mostly came from the female users – the tendency of some men to start their messages with something like ‘Hey sexy, looking hot in your photos’.
The general feeling was that it’s fine to mention your match’s attractiveness, but don’t do it in an overly familiar way.
Someone who asks the same question two or more times when exchanging emails gets a big black mark, and we can see why.
If you’re not properly paying attention to what you’re saying to your matches then you don’t really deserve to get a response.
Make sure that you read this before you type a single word.