This is why SATURDAY PUNCH asked some Nigerians the kind of advice they would give their best friends who are about to marry their ex I’d tell my friend everything about my ex – Olanisebe Damilola I would be happy if they loved each other, but as a friend, I would tell my friend all the things I know about the guy, which might help her in the relationship.
As a concerned person, I wouldn’t let my friend down, but at the same time, I would be careful in giving her the advice so as not to appear as being jealous.
Being an ex doesn’t mean he’s a bad person – Ruth Olorunisola Well, just because he’s my ex does not make him a bad person.
Some men have good heart but fate might not have allowed them to marry the ladies they were dating. Hence, I would encourage my friend to proceed with the relationship, especially if the guy was good to me.
All of us have shared at least one flirty text with a good friend over the years. [Read: What to do when you start liking someone else] Psychologists say that this feeling is an echo of the feeling you get when you fall in love, or are aroused by someone new in a sexual manner.