Compulsory sexuality means that people may agree to sex that violates them.
If I believe that I am less of a man if I refuse sex, I may have sex I do not actually want and that, in fact, makes me feel disgusted and violated.
“Virgin” continues to be used as an insult, particularly against men.
Polyamorous, kinky, and sex-positive communities often have an unspoken expectation that everyone wants lots of sex.
I talk about this with people a lot, and sometimes it seems like everyone I know has one of those stories. but I thought I had to agree to sex if I wanted to be in a relationship.