You'll also find articles that can help you get the answers you want without coming across as intrusive.
Choose an article with the type of conversation you would like to have with your date, and then follow the suggestions about what to say or ask in order to uncover what you really want to know.
Without knowing what to ask or say, you could spend weeks or months with someone that isn't right for you.
That's why it's so important to steer some of your conversations to topics that will help you find the answers you seek.
The best way to do that is by having plenty of good conversations, so you can learn how your date thinks and feels about the things that are important to you.