If you are a guy, you just have to get used to that.
For the rest of your life, everything you do will be “creepy”. We men have to get over the fear of approaching a woman. We also have to think of something to say, and try not to be creepy, or sleazy, or weird, and say something magical, but keep it chill, and relaxing, and not seem too desperate, but try to somehow get her number without seeming stalker-ish.
Now, I know that it seems cruel to favor girls without kids, but – I’ve dated single mothers before. Also, when a woman has a kid, it’s harder to find any time to learn who the woman is. I played with him, disciplined him, tucked him in at night, and read him stories – the whole thing. So when we finally hit a small bump in the road, the relationship crumbled. And with Christmas around the corner, I’m simply not ready to be a father figure AND Santa Claus.
The girls online who don’t have kids usually have other baggage.
A girl who cares about personality is suddenly encouraged to focus on looks first.
My bald head suddenly doesn’t look so charming when it’s juxtaposed next to a thousand pictures of guys with hair.
So she will never click on my profile out of the blue, because she’ll think, “eh, he’s bald, next, next, next.”When a girl goes on a dating website, she is in a shopping kind of a mode.