And it's not a bad thing, especially if you're looking for marriage.
But if you come to another married person and, on the outset say, 'I'm attached and this is what I'm looking for,' there is that expectation of a mutual destruction concept, that is, 'I am going to keep this to myself but the golden rule is that our partners should never find out about this.' That is why Ashley Madison is so attractive to people.
You're engaged in a community where you know that you're all attached.
A new cheater registers to your site every 15 seconds -- over 4 million to date.
What if someone leaves his or her spouse for the Ashley Madison date? If you stood back and said, OK, affairs have happened.
One primary reason men visit the site is that they are in a sexless marriage, or they are getting very vanilla sex in their lives.