If you want to have a go with him indoors here is a pretty basic guide to Tantric massage.
Firstly, from this point on, your manhood is referred to as Lingam (wand of light – don’t be thinking light sabre it’s not that big! Choose some gentle music (whale music is optional).
The end of the massage is signaled by either ejaculation or snoring.
If he is snoring you still have some practicing to do.
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