There seems to be an invasion going on and although it doesn’t get as much media coverage as illegal immigration along the Mexican border or the stream of refugees pouring into Europe from the Middle East, it still may have a racial component to it as it tugs at the traditional values of both Western men and the Asian Culture.
What we are witnessing is a sudden increase in Western men with Asian girlfriends.
The second biggest mistake is to take the whole thing too seriously.
Believe me when I say that if you're the first foreigner she's been out with - she's very nervous.
Your job is to use these first date tips and make her feel • comfortable and safe with you • attracted to you • …lust for you…Do you know how to do that?
Since I portrayed myself as "nice and safe" when I went for the kiss I got rejected. Because I set the expectations that she would be my nice girlfriend. Afterwards when he took her to his place they made love. It gave her adventure and intrigue (which was what she wanted.) She didn't want the safe boring fancy dinner. Avoid these bad first dates and make your evening work out.
Maybe when she's ready to settle down and get married perhaps I would have had a chance. From there you take her to places that will make it happen.
I recommend taking her somewhere that ideally • shows a part of who you are • is somewhere that no one has probably taken her before (and is safe enough) • can give you the chance to be together…alone…and where the mood can be more..sensual.